If you’ve tried traditional talk therapy and still feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from yourself or your relationships, EMDR and Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy offer a different path.
EMDR & IFS Therapy in Orange County
Gentle, effective therapy to help you move through what’s been holding you back.
When Insight Isn’t Enough
Many thoughtful, high-achieving people come to therapy saying:
“I know where this comes from, but I still feel it in my body.”
“I understand my patterns, but I can’t seem to change them.”
“I’ve talked about this for years.”
“I feel emotionally stuck.”
Talk therapy can be incredibly valuable. But for trauma, attachment wounds, and chronic stress, insight alone often isn’t enough.
That’s because trauma lives in the nervous system, not just the mind.
EMDR and IFS work directly with the parts of you that hold emotional pain, survival responses, and protective patterns.
This is why many clients experience deeper change, faster.
What Is EMDR Therapy?
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is an evidence-based trauma therapy that helps your brain reprocess distressing memories so they no longer feel overwhelming or present-day.
Instead of reliving painful experiences, EMDR allows your nervous system to finally complete what was left unfinished.
Through bilateral stimulation (such as eye movements or tapping), EMDR helps your brain move stuck memories into long-term storage, where they belong.
Clients often notice:
reduced emotional intensity
fewer intrusive thoughts
less reactivity
improved sleep
increased sense of safety
relief from anxiety or panic
greater emotional clarity
EMDR doesn’t erase memories. It changes how they live inside you.
What EMDR Helps With
EMDR is especially effective for:
Childhood or developmental trauma
- Writer’s block
- Creative shutdown
- Public speaking anxiety
- Performance anxiety
- Perfectionism
- Fear of visibility
- Trauma and PTSD
- Anxiety and panic
- Attachment wounds
- Difficult breakups or betrayals
- Medical trauma or accidents
- Chronic stress
- Negative core beliefs (“I’m not enough,” “I’m unsafe,” “I don’t matter”)
It allows your system to release what it’s been carrying.
What Is Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy?
IFS is a compassionate, evidence-based approach that views your inner world as made up of different “parts” each trying to help you survive.
Some parts hold pain. Some protect you. Some manage emotions. Some learned to stay strong.
None of them are bad.
IFS helps you develop a relationship with these parts rather than fighting them.
Instead of pushing symptoms away, we get curious about them.
Clients often discover:
the anxious part trying to keep them safe
the perfectionist part working to prevent rejection
the numb part protecting from overwhelm
the angry part guarding boundaries
the younger parts still holding old hurts
Through IFS, you learn how to lead your internal system from a grounded, compassionate place — not from survival.
What IFS Helps With
IFS is powerful for:
- anxiety and emotional overwhelm
- relationship patterns
- inner conflict or self-criticism
- burnout
- attachment injuries
- trauma
- identity struggles
- feeling disconnected from yourself
- decision making
- creativity & motivation
- sleep improvement
- feeling more like your "best" self again
IFS doesn’t try to “fix” you. It helps you reconnect with the parts of you that need care.
Why EMDR + IFS Together Is So Powerful
When EMDR and IFS are integrated, therapy becomes both deep and gentle.
EMDR helps process trauma stored in the nervous system. IFS helps you relate compassionately to the parts holding that trauma.
Together they:
increase emotional safety
reduce overwhelm during trauma processing
support attachment healing
prevent re-traumatization
help you stay present and grounded
create lasting change
This combination allows us to work with both your biology and your inner world.
How This Is Different From Traditional Talk Therapy
Traditional talk therapy focuses on insight and understanding.
EMDR and IFS go further.
They work directly with:
- the nervous system
- emotional memory
- attachment patterns
- survival responses
- protective parts
Rather than revisiting painful stories over and over, we help your system actually resolve them.
Many clients report meaningful shifts in fewer sessions compared to insight-only approaches.
My Approach to EMDR & IFS Therapy
I integrate EMDR and IFS within an attachment-based, trauma-informed framework.
My work is relational, paced, and deeply respectful of your system. You are never pushed. We move at the speed of safety.
I also bring training in Emotionally Focused Therapy and Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, which allows us to address:
nervous system regulation
relationship dynamics
emotional patterns
trauma stored in the body
This creates therapy that is both clinically grounded and deeply human.
EMDR & IFS Therapy in Orange County
I work with adults navigating:
trauma and attachment wounds
anxiety and chronic stress
burnout
relationship struggles
identity transitions
feeling emotionally stuck
Whether you’re processing past experiences or wanting to change long-standing patterns, EMDR and IFS provide a path toward healing that feels both effective and compassionate.
What Clients Often Experience
Clients commonly report:
feeling calmer in their body
less emotional reactivity
clearer boundaries
improved relationships
deeper self-understanding
increased confidence
a greater sense of wholeness